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PRINCIPLE TWO: Create Their Experience

Once every week throughout June, I offer each one of the Three Principles to Build Customer Loyalty. In this second week, I give you Principle Two: Create their Experience.

QUI Takeaway: Customers pay for their experience, not your product or service. They buy with emotion and justify their decision with reason. Customers seek the best emotional value in their experience, not your logically reasonable price, product, or service. When customers complain, they don’t complain about the price. They complain about the value of their experience for the price you’re asking them to pay.

To earn customer loyalty, Be the Customer and Create Their Experience. You are not in the supplier business or the provider business. You are in the Experience business. Customers are paying for their experience, not yours. This is a QUI concept. In order to earn customer loyalty, you need to create an experience for each customer.

I get that we are all doing more with less. I know we have all had cutbacks, and possibly even had some layoffs. There may be some days you are understaffed because a member of your team called in sick. Or your computers are down when their customers called you. Customers don’t care. Those issues are YOUR experience. Customers only care about THEIR experience, not yours. They are willing to give you their hard-earned money in exchange for an experience that they feel is more valuable to them than their money. And when they come to you, they never have an expectation that they will be dissatisfied.

Remove all potential dissatisfiers.

So how do you create your customers’ experience? First, do everything you can to make sure there are no negative surprises. Get rid of any potential dissatisfiers. For example, remove Forbidden Phrases such as “I’ll be back in a second,” Can you hold for just a minute?” and “I’ll be right with you.” Such phrases only frustrate a customer when more than 60 seconds go by. Even  “I’m new here,” or “I’m in training is a Forbidden Phrase. If your customers are going to pay their hard-earned money, do they want to be served by a rookie? When you say you’re in training, your service is a poor value for their experience. Even more, they don’t care about your experience. All they care about is their experience. 

Review all the customer touchpoints and take any negative issues and make them neutral. Minimize wait times. Clean dirty restrooms. Create “no hassle” return or exchange policies. Then, as Larry Winget, the Pitbull of Personal Development puts it, “Do what you said you would do when you said you would do it, the way you said you would do it.” That’s it. It’s that simple.

And when you take action, a negative customer experience has turned into a neutral one. But that’s not good enough. Satisfied customers feel their experience is good, not better, just average. Nobody raves about average. And satisfied customers will leave when they find an experience that is better or a price that is less expensive.

Don’t just serve to meet customer expectations. Serve to exceed their expectations. Serve to WOW them.

So don’t serve to satisfy customers. Don’t treat customers as they would have expected to be treated. And don’t treat them as they want to be treated. Instead, treat them a little better than they want to be treated. Serve to WOW them.

Deliver a low-cost, no-cost “a little better than the average experience that customers expect” product or service. For hotels, offer bottled water at arrival or departure. For auto service repair businesses, wash the car before returning the vehicle. For fine dining restaurants, personalize the menu with the customers’ names. Customers have an emotional connection with you. The more emotional the connections, the more memorable the experiences, the more loyal the customers. And loyal customers will return, again and again, raving about you to others along the way.

Let me give you one example of how we created for customers THEIR experience. When I was the GM of a luxury resort, when a bus tour group arrived, we announced an IPT call over our walkie-talkies. IPT stood for I Practice Teamwork. When an IPT call was made, everyone had a role that was pre-determined. Administrative staff assisted check-in, maintenance, and security people served as elevator operators and housekeepers and sales managers on each floor assisted guests to their rooms. We did the same thing for breakfast. Everybody became a busser or poured coffee. Was that an inconvenience for the admin staff or the maintenance people, Of course. But it DIDN’T matter. We all understood that customers are paying for their experience, not ours. 

NEXT WEEK: Principle Three: Be Magnificently Boring!

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PRINCIPLE ONE: Be the Customer

During the month of June, I will offer each one of the Three Principles to Build Customer Loyalty. In this first week, I give you Principle One: Be the Customer.

“Customers perceive service in their own unique, idiosyncratic, emotional, irrational, end-of-the-day, and totally human terms. Perception is all there is!” Tom Peters.

Did you know that FedEx delivery people never run? They are told not to run. Do you know why? It’s because if their customers saw them running, those customers might FEEL that FedEx was running late. And that is NOT what FedEx wants to project. Their performance standard that they tell their drivers is “Walk quickly with purpose.” FedEx does that because they know that to customers, image is everything, their feelings are facts, and their perception is reality.

When I say, “County Fair”, what do you remember and feel about that experience? If I asked, “What do the grounds look like at the County Fair”, what is your perception? You can “see” the half-eaten corn cobs and the cotton candy sticks on the grounds. What if I say, “County Fair restrooms”? You probably remember someone shouting before you left home, “Everyone, go now because you don’t want to go when you are at the fair.” When you are looking for the porta-potties, you DON’T want to see what’s behind door #2. What about if I said, “County Fair ride operator”? What is your perception? Probably something like this:

Now I say to you, “Disney”, and I say the same three things. What do the grounds look like? You can picture the hedge that’s cut to look like Mickey Mouse. What do the restrooms look like? I’ve done this presentation for thousands of people and no one has ever said that the restrooms were dirty. What about the ride operator? Let me tell you what the grooming standard is for a male ride operator at Disney. Hair can not touch the back of the collar in a standing position. All facial hair (beards, goatees, and mustaches) must be fully grown in, neatly groomed, and well maintained and no longer than 1/4 of an inch in length. Mustaches may extend below the corners of the mouth to meet with the facial beard. Cast Members without a mustache, beard, or goatee are expected to be clean-shaven every day. Why is that? Because Disney understands their customer. When mom and dad and the kids are in Orlando deciding to go to Universal, Sea World, or Disney, who chooses? Mom or Dad? Mom. Disney knows that the mother is the decision maker. And what are the two things important to the mom when bringing her children to an unfamiliar place? #1 is Safety. So that is why everyone at Disney is dressed in costume so that if a child gets lost, he or she will gravitate to someone in costume instead of someone dressed like us on vacation. What’s #2 important to Mom? Cleanliness. That’s why Disney makes sure that their restrooms are immaculate. And why the strict grooming standard? Because Disney knows that if you aren’t being brought to Disney by your parents, you’re being brought by your grandparents. Ask any grandparent, would you mind leaving your grandchild with that employee, the one over there with the long hair, tattoos, and body piercings? What is Grandma going to say? “No way! If he’s not ON drugs, he’s probably selling drugs.” That employee could be the most polite person, but it doesn’t matter. All that matters is how Grandma FEELS. And her feelings are her facts.

Customers don’t seek B2B or B2C businesses. They engage in businesses that are H2H. Human to Human. One to One Heart to Heart. Customers buy with emotion and justify their decisions with reason.

QUI Takeaway: To earn customer loyalty, don’t get inside their heads. Get inside their hearts. Create an emotional connection. Don’t just think like the customer. Be the customer.

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The Three Principles to Build Customer Loyalty

Every week, in the month of June, I will offer each one of the Three Principles to Build Customer Loyalty. Why only three? Because nobody can remember Number Four. Who is the first President of the United States? Surely, George Washington. Who is Number Four? Who is the first person to walk on the moon? Neil Armstrong, of course. Who is Number Four? (By the way, the answers to who is Number Four are James Madison and Alan Bean.)

For starters, let me give you these simple definitions: Customer service is what you do for your customers. Customer experience or CX is how your customers feel about what you do. Customer experience management or CXM is what you do before, during, and after your customers feel about what you did. And customer loyalty is how your customers feel about what you did over and over again.

Speaking about customers and customer experience, business leaders are happy because customers leave satisfied with their product or service. But that’s not good enough. Satisfied customers will feel that their experience is good, not better, just average. Nobody raves about average. And satisfied customers will not return as soon as they find an experience that is better or a price that is less expensive. 

Rather than satisfying your customers, you have to deliver an experience that is better than satisfactory. Don’t treat your customers as they expect. And don’t treat your customers as you expect to be treated. Instead, treat them a little better than they expect. Don’t serve to satisfy them. Serve to WOW them. Your customers will have an emotional connection. The more emotional the connections, the more memorable the experiences, and the more loyal your customers are.

So here are Three Principles to Build Customer Loyalty. 

  • PRINCIPLE ONE: Be the Customer.
  • PRINCIPLE TWO: Create Their Experience.
  • PRINCIPLE THREE: Be Magnificently Boring!

Once you understand the Three Principles to Build Customer Loyalty, then you need to consistently deliver them. When you do, your customers will be WOWED and happy, loyally returning again and again, raving to others on social media.

NEXT WEEK: Be the Customer.

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Learning about customer service should not be seen as an event, but rather as a process.

A wife walks into the living room where her husband is reading. She leans over and whispers “I love you.” Nothing. She repeats louder, “I love you.” Complete silence. She stares at him and asks, “I say I love you a LOT to you. You NEVER say I love you back. Why is that?” Her husband turns to her and declares, “Look, I told you I loved you when we got married. If that should change, I’ll let you know.” Now, is that enough? Of course not. If you want love to flourish, you have to be reminded every so often.

It’s the same for customer service. You already know what customer service is, but to make it flourish, you and your team need to be reminded periodically. If you want to drive customer loyalty, you cannot see customer service training as attending only one finite event, but rather you must see it as a participant in a continuous process.

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Just a little over a year ago, I authored a blog post that implied that customer service training is good, not better, just average. Nobody raves about average. So, I offered people a continuous education in customer CARE. If you missed it, just follow it here:

And if you haven’t followed me on customer CARE, just find that here:

When it comes to customers and customer service, don’t just be good. Be GREAT out there!

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Customers care about their metrics, not yours.

Customers pay for their experience, not your product or service. They buy with emotion and justify their decision with reason. Customers seek the best emotional value in their experience, not your logically reasonable price, product, or service.

The value to your customers is in their personal interactions, not your “cash or credit” business transactions. To earn customer loyalty, don’t get inside their heads. Get inside their hearts. Create an emotional connection. Think RELATIONSHIPS or Go Broke. Literally.

QUI QUOTE: Your customers don’t care about your NPS, CSAT, or CX metrics. They only care about theirs: One to One. Human to Human. Heart to Heart

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QUI QUOTES Reminders about Customers and Customer Service

English writer Samuel Johnson said, “People need to be reminded more often than they need to be instructed”. So I encourage you to remind yourself and your colleagues every day about each one of these 25 QUI QUOTES about customers and customer service.

FIRST BEST

First, be the best to your customers. Then, you will be the first among your competitors. When it comes to customers and customer service, don’t be just good. Be GREAT out there!

ACTION ATTITUDE

Thinking about customer service excellence doesn’t make it happen; doing something does. Customer service excellence is not an attitude. It’s action.

ACTION EXCUSES

To a complaining customer, when something is wrong, your explanation is an excuse. Customers want action, not excuses.

CARE BIG  

Customers don’t care how big your business is. They only care about how big you care about them. So CARE BIG!

CONSISTENCY

Customer loyalty is not one BIG WOW delivered to a customer. It’s one little wow delivered consistently to every customer. Consistency builds trust. Trust builds relationships. Relationships build loyalty. Loyalty builds your business. Deliver customer CARE consistently.

CUSTOMERS CARE

Don’t just serve to sell your products or services to customers. And don’t just serve to satisfy customers. Instead, serve to WOW them. Serve to CARE.

COMMUNICATE with each customer with a smile, eye contact, and polite interaction. Inform each customer transparently and interactively of the product’s or service’s function, liabilities, and advantages to them.

ACKNOWLEDGE each customer’s presence and value to you and your company.

RESPOND promptly and empathetically to each customer’s questions, concerns, and complaints.

ENRICH the experiences and, ultimately, the lives of every customer.

And when you CARE, each customer is WOWED and happy, intent on returning again and again, raving to others on social media. 

CUSTOMERS COMPLAIN

Take the perspective that customers complain because they want to help your business. Otherwise, they would walk away, saying nothing, with no intention of ever returning.

CUSTOMERS COMPLAIN VALUE

Your customers aren’t complaining about the price. They’re complaining about the value of their experience for the price you are asking them to pay.

CUSTOMERS DON’T CARE

Customers coming to your business today don’t care how good you were to other customers yesterday. And they don’t care how good you are to others tomorrow. Customers only care how good you are now – to them. So CARE BIG! Don’t be just good. Be GREAT out there!

CUSTOMER EXPERIENCE

Customers are paying for their experience, not your service or product. They buy with emotion and justify their decision with reason. Customers seek the best emotional value in their entire experience, not the minutiae of your logically reasonable best prices, products, or services, virtual or physical locations, AI, ChatGPT, online or human customer support, and many other details of yours.

CUSTOMER SERVICE EXPERIENCE LOYALTY

Customer service is what you do for your customers. Customer experience is how your customers feel about what you did. Customer experience management is what you do before, during, and after you find out how customers feel about what you did. Customer loyalty is how your customers feel about what you did again and again.

EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

To earn customer loyalty, don’t get inside their heads. Get inside their hearts. Create an emotional connection. The more emotional the connections, the more memorable the experiences, and the more loyal the customers are. Loyal customers will return again and again, raving about you to others on social media.

EXPERIENCE RIGHT BOUGHT

You know you have customer experience right when customers don’t tell others what they bought. They tell them whom they bought it from.

FEEL RIGHT

A complaining customer is not always right. But he is always your customer. So do whatever it takes to make him feel right.

FIND KEEP

Your business success is not dependent on how many customers you find. It’s all about how many customers you keep.

FOCUS

Focus on saving your customers time versus saving the company money. Do that and you’ll earn more money than you would have saved.

HUMAN TO HUMAN

Customers don’t go to B2B or B2C companies. They engage companies that are H2H. Human to Human. One to One. Heart to Heart. Customers don’t care how big your company is. They only care about how big you care about them. So CARE BIG!

INTERACTION TRANSACTION

The value to your customers is in their personal interactions, not your “cash or credit” business transactions. Think RELATIONSHIPS or Go Broke. Literally.

LOYALTY

Customer loyalty is not earned by giving points to your customers for buying from you. It’s about delivering service so GREAT you don’t need to.

MAGNIFICENTLY BORING

Customer loyalty is not one BIG WOW to a customer. It’s one little wow delivered consistently to every customer. And when you consistently deliver a little wow, you transform a neutral customer experience into a positive one. So, be Magnificently Boring! Consistently deliver a low-cost, no-cost “a little better than the average experience that customers expect” product or service so repetitively that you feel it is boring, but to the customer, at that moment, you are Magnificent! Customers have an emotional connection with you. The more emotional the connections, the more memorable the experiences, and the more loyal the customers are. Your loyal customers will return again and again, raving about you to others on social media. Consistency builds trust. Trust builds loyalty. Loyalty builds your business. Deliver consistency Magnificently!

MAGNIFICENTLY BORING TO CARE

Be Magnificently Boring to CARE! Consistently CARE for your customers so repetitively that you feel it is boring, but to every customer, at that moment, you are Magnificent! Customers have an emotional connection with you. The more emotional the connections, the more memorable the experiences, and the more loyal the customers are. Loyal customers will return again and again, raving about you to others. Consistency builds trust. Trust builds relationships. Relationships build loyalty. Loyalty builds your business. CARE Magnificently!

MARKETING

Marketing is a promise to customers. Customer loyalty is not built on promises. It’s built on the consistent delivery of service that not only meets but rather exceeds customer expectations of the company’s marketing promises.

NEW MARKETING

Your New Marketing is not your advertising online to customers. It’s your customers raving about you to others on social media.

PERCEPTION

To customers, perception is reality,  image is everything, and feelings are facts. Customer experience is not about what you or your customers THINK AFTER their experience. It’s about how your customers FEEL DURING their experience.

RELATIONSHIPS

Think RELATIONSHIPS or Go Broke. Literally.

RENDER REMEMBER

It is not about the service you render. It’s about the experience your customers remember. 

SMILE

Good customer service means putting a smile on your face. GREAT customer CARE means putting a smile on your customers’ faces.

STORY

People are talking about you whether you know it or not, like it or not. World-class or no class. And if they’re not talking world-class or no class, then they’re simply not talking about you at all. Make sure you have them tell a WOW story with your GREAT customer CARE.

SUCCEED INNOVATE

When it comes to customers and customer service, if, at first, you don’t succeed, innovate until you do.

TECHNOLOGY

Not every customer experience can be made better with technology. Focus on the customer, not technology.

If you think 25 QUI QUOTES are a little more than I reminded you, you’re right. When you are in customer service, don’t just serve to sell to your customers. And don’t serve to satisfy your customers. Don’t treat your customers as they expect to be treated. And don’t treat your customers as you expect to be treated. Instead, treat your customers a little better than they expect to be treated. When it comes to customers and customer service, don’t be just good. Be GREAT out there!

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Be Magnificently Boring to CARE!

Business leaders are happy because customers are satisfied with their product or service. But that’s not good enough. Satisfied customers feel that their experience was good, not better, just average. Nobody raves about average. And satisfied customers will not return as soon as they find an experience that is better or a less expensive price.

So don’t serve to sell to customers. And don’t serve to satisfy customers. Serve to WOW them. Serve to CARE.

  • COMMUNICATE with every customer with a smile, eye contact, and polite interaction. Inform each customer transparently and interactively of the product’s or service’s function, liabilities, and advantages to them.
  • ACKNOWLEDGE each customer’s presence and value to you and your business.
  • RESPOND promptly and empathetically to each customer’s questions, concerns, and complaints.
  • ENRICH the experiences and, ultimately, the lives of every customer.

And Be Magnificently Boring to CARE! Consistently CARE for your customers so repetitively that you feel it is boring, but to every customer, at that moment, you are Magnificent! Customers have an emotional connection with you. The more emotional the connections, the more memorable the experiences, and the more loyal the customers are. Loyal customers will return, again and again, raving about you to others. Consistency builds trust. Trust builds relationships. Relationships build loyalty. Loyalty builds your business. 

QUI Takeaway: Be Magnificently Boring to CARE! When you are Magnificently Boring to CARE, your customers are WOWED and happy, returning again and again, raving to others on social media.

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Think RELATIONSHIPS or Go Broke. Literally.

QUI QUOTE: As their leader, the value to your employees is in their personal interactions, not your business transactions.

For their well-being, employees want emotional remuneration, not just financial ones. Don’t ask them, “What can you do for me and my business?” Instead, ask your employees these two questions: “What do you think? and “What can I do for you?” Then listen intently and respond interactively with follow-up.

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Select for passion, not past performance.

Instead of “Hire for attitude, not aptitude” or “Hire for personality, train for skills”, remind yourself when you recruit to

Select for passion, not past performance.

You hire an employee. At some point, before employees start or while they begin working, they may think that you could be a top-down, one-way, “I know everything, you know nothing” command-and-control dictator. They would feel that, as their boss, you don’t care much about them. And, soon, they could care less about you and your business.

Instead, select a person. Employees don’t seek B2B or B2C companies. They engage in companies that are H2H. Human to Human. Heart to Heart. Employees don’t care how big you are. They only care about how big you care about them. So CARE for them. Communicate. Appreciate. Recognize. Empower. (See my previous post about “People First”. https://billquiseng.com/2022/01/10/when-it-all-comes-down-to-business-its-people-first/)

As for attitude and personality , thinking and  talking about service excellence does not make it happen; doing something does. Service excellence is passion, not attitude or personality. You HAVE TO have attitude and personality to serve customers. But when you have passion, you always WANT to WOW them.

QUI Takeaway: Select for passion, not past performance. Don’t train your people with your top-down, one-way, “I know everything, you know nothing” instruction. Instead, educate your people interactively, frequently, and continuously. With suggestions, recommendations, and encouragement, empower your people to develop, not a business, but themselves. Your people will be enthused and energized to passionately engage customers. They will create an emotional connection with your customers. The more emotional the connections, the more memorable the experiences, the more loyal the customers are. And everyone, your people and your customers alike, will be enriched, literally and figuratively.

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BUSINESS LEADERS FORBIDDEN PHRASE: We’ve always done it that way.

BUSINESS LEADER FORBIDDEN PHRASE: “We’ve always done it that way.”

If your customers and employees are raving about you as a customer service leader, then that’s GREAT! But if they’re not saying anything at all about you, then that’s not. Satisfied people feel that your customer service leadership is good, not better, just average. Nobody raves about average. And satisfied people won’t return as soon as they find something better. So be GREAT out there! Otherwise, well …

A complaining customer would ask you, “Well, if you’ve already done it that way, why don’t you guys fix it?”

Business competitors would say to their people, “Well, if they’ve already done it that way, then we’ll just do a little better to WOW their customers with us.”

Your employees would say to themselves, “Well, if you’ve already done it that way, then we’ll go somewhere else that pays more.” or “We’ll go somewhere else where they communicate, support, and motivate us,” or “We’ll go somewhere else where they recognize and appreciate us for our team and individual achievements, accomplishments, or personalized acts of customer service.”

Instead of serving your customers on what they expect and leading your people on how they are treated, ask yourselves, as leaders, to envision “What if?”. And don’t just think and talk about it. Thinking and talking about customer service leadership doesn’t make it happen; doing something does. Customer service leadership is action, not attitude.

Focus on creating a GREAT experience for your employees as much as you do for customers and you will earn the loyalty of both. Soon, without a focus on profits, profits will grow. And everyone will be enriched, literally and figuratively.

Satisfying current customers’ and employees’ needs and innovating to consistently deliver WOW customer and employee experiences will maximize the ROI of CX. So do more than what you always have done. Do better than what you always have done. And be GREAT out there!

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